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What is Adoption Experience?

Adoption is an area of childcare and family life shrouded in misconception, myth and confusion. The best way to untangle the realities from the rumours and hearsay is to focus on real people's real experiences.

Help clarify any area of Adoption by adding your own first-hand experiences.

Featured Discussion

Did you meet your child's birth parents before they were placed? What was this like? What did you say?
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About Find Me a Family

Read more about the series that followed three households of would-be adopters as they took part in a pioneering project that aims to find homes for the children who are harder to place.

Your experiences

  1. I am also facing a second failed match & I know it is not me but the social workers and the process - it makes me really angry - I was approved 18 months ago & it now feels l am back to the beginning again. Please do not feel that yo…”

    Tracy on How do Social Workers decide? following two failures of the matching process we need to know what were doing wrong, the feedback is all negative and I'm about to give up

  2. staying with your birth family/or in care can be traumatic too. 40 yrs ago i lived in a family not dissimillar to some of the worst you hear about in the news. My mum managed to keep it together long enough for the welfare people to leave, th…”

    caroline on Why does almost everyone on here talk about adoption as if it is a good thing? Why does no-one seem to be facing the reality that being adopted is horrifically traumatising?

  3. Hi, yes you can. Special Guardianship Orders were introduced to help Grandparents who are looking after their Grandchildren temporarily. This type of order will continue to recognise the birth parents, however their ability to exercise thei…”

    Arlene on can i adopt my own grandchild?

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